Readers Requests.
Monday, July 28th, 2008Friends and readers. Our anti workplace bullying campaign has produced a great deal of interest,and our mail box has been getting a lot of requests for help and information.
We do our very best to answer the questions we get,but should we not have the answer,we will forward your question on to organisations we ourselves have been in touch with in the process of our research into workplace bullying.
We recently received a request from an Edinburgh reader,asking us what makes a bully behave in such horrible ways?
Bullying is learned in childhood,but the form changes in the workplace. By adulthood bullies have learned the need to network with others,show a charming face to those in power over them,and to use any means at their disposal to isolate and discredit their targets.
Bullies in the workplace prefer targets that are independent and task oriented. They want to avoid fighting with friends and colleagues of their victims. If potential competitors are popular,the first step of bullies may be to isolate them. Bullies may use lies,rumours and deceptions to isolate their targets from friends and colleagues.
For example if a target is home ill,the bully may quietly signal to other staff that the target is out for mental health problems and the problems are not to be discussed. The bully may hint that the person is not going to be with the organisation for long and that smart people will keep their distance in order to avoid risking their own careers.
Dealing with bullies in the workplace is often painful and difficult. Confronting them takes a great deal of courage and skill. Instead of confronting bullies,organisations often shield bullies in order to try and avoid losing lawsuits from victims.
However if serial bullies suceed.they can eventually consume much of the creative and productive efforts of an organisation. Serial bullies in positions of power can destroy the effectiveness of government organistaions,schools,businesses and charities. It is therefore essential to any organisation to have a clear process for identifying serial bullies. Once serial bullies are identified,swift efforts are needed to prevent them from building an offensive to maintain power.
We hope this answers our readers question which we put together with a number of other closely related questions. Interestingly one of the questions came from a criminal justice worker formerly employed at the infamous Muirhouse Social Work Centre,or possibly that’s just a mere coincidence.